Whether you’re still in the early days of newlywed bliss or are veterans in the game, one universal truth about happy long-term relationships is this: they take nurturing and one-on-one time.

Between work, kids, and life’s daily hustle, it’s easy to let romance take a backseat. That’s why a romantic getaway—even if it’s just for a weekend—can be the reset your relationship needs. And what better way to celebrate love than by supporting Black-owned hotels and bed & breakfasts that are redefining hospitality with warmth, luxury, and impeccable service?

From cozy B&Bs to luxurious spa retreats, here are some of the best Black-owned stays across the U.S.—perfect for rekindling connection, indulging in relaxation, and making new memories with the one you love.

East Coast Escapes: Charm, Luxury & Serenity

1. Salamander Resort & Spa – Middleburg, Virginia

For couples who want luxury with a side of adventure, Salamander Resort & Spa delivers. Nestled in Virginia’s wine and horse country, this 340-acre retreat offers spa treatments, fine dining, and activities like horseback riding and zip-lining. Whether you’re soaking in the outdoor hot tub, sipping wine by the fire, or sneaking in a couples’ massage, this is the kind of escape that feels like a real reset.

• Owner: Sheila Johnson
• Average Nightly Rate: $615+
• Website: Salamander Resort & Spa

2. The Ivy Hotel – Baltimore, Maryland

If romance = being completely pampered, then The Ivy Hotel is your spot. This boutique mansion-turned-hotel offers exquisite rooms, five-star dining, and a spa experience you’ll never forget. Every stay includes a full gourmet breakfast, afternoon tea, and unlimited access to the minibar (yes, unlimited!).

• Owners: Eddie & Sylvia Brown
• Average Nightly Rate: $700+
• Website: The Ivy Hotel

3. Salamander Washington, D.C. – Washington, D.C.

Newly renovated and situated along The Wharf, Salamander D.C. is a perfect blend of city sophistication and resort-style relaxation. The two-story spa, elevated dining, and romantic Potomac River views make it ideal for a chic Valentine’s retreat.

• Owner: Sheila Johnson
• Average Nightly Rate: $400+
• Website: Salamander Washington, D.C.

4. The Oaks Bed & Breakfast – Montgomery County, Maryland

If you prefer a quaint, intimate experience, The Oaks B&B is the perfect escape. Tucked away in Montgomery County, this cozy spot offers a romantic, peaceful setting with personalized service.

• Owners: Quinton & Sharon Wilder
• Average Nightly Rate: $250+
• Website: The Oaks Bed & Breakfast

Southern Charm: Romance, History & Culture

5. Dew Drop Inn Hotel – New Orleans, Louisiana

For couples who love music, history, and a little soul, the Dew Drop Inn is the perfect Valentine’s escape. Once a legendary music venue hosting Aretha Franklin and James Brown, it’s been reimagined into a boutique hotel with a vibrant, artistic feel.

• Average Nightly Rate: Varies
• Website: Dew Drop Inn Hotel

6. NOPSI Hotel – New Orleans, Louisiana

Located in a 1927 building with stunning architecture, NOPSI Hotel is a mix of old-world charm and modern luxury. From a rooftop pool to sophisticated dining, this hotel sets the perfect mood for romance.

• Average Nightly Rate: $250+
• Website: NOPSI Hotel

7. The Copper Door B&B – Miami, Florida

Miami may be known for its nightlife, but The Copper Door B&B offers an intimate, chef-driven experience that’s perfect for couples looking to relax. Cozy rooms, personalized service, and a focus on culinary excellence make it a hidden gem.

• Owners: Jamila Ross & Akino West
• Average Nightly Rate: Varies
• Website: The Copper Door B&B

West Coast & Desert Retreats

8. B-Love's Guest House – Oakland, California‍

For couples looking for a creative, artsy retreat, B-Love’s Guest House in Oakland offers a unique stay in a beautifully restored Victorian home. Run by artist and activist Traci "B-Love" Bartlow, it’s an inspiring backdrop for a romantic weekend.

• Average Nightly Rate: Varies
• Website: B-Love's Guest House

9. The Good House Hotel & Spa – Desert Hot Springs, California

This Black-owned luxury spa hotel offers mineral hot springs, desert tranquility, and upscale design—ideal for couples who want a wellness-focused escape.

• Average Nightly Rate: Varies
• Website: The Good House Hotel & Spa

Cozy Coastal & Vineyard Retreats

10. The Oak Bluffs Inn – Martha’s Vineyard, Massachusetts

‍Few places scream classic romance like Martha’s Vineyard, and The Oak Bluffs Inn is one of its most charming places to stay. Cozy rooms, warm hospitality, and proximity to the beach make it an ideal coastal getaway for two.

• Owner: Erik Albert
• Average Nightly Rate: Varies
• Website: The Oak Bluffs Inn

11. Akwaaba Inns – Multiple Locations

‍Owned by Monique Greenwood, Akwaaba Inns offer luxurious B&B experiences across the East Coast, including Brooklyn, Washington, D.C., and the Pocono Mountains. Each property is uniquely designed, making them perfect for a cozy, intimate escape.

• Average Nightly Rate: Varies by location
• Website: Akwaaba Inns

Nurturing Love & Supporting Black-Owned Hospitality

No matter how long you’ve been together, taking time away to focus on your relationship is one of the best investments you can make. These Black-owned hotels and B&Bs not only offer exceptional hospitality but also give you a chance to support Black entrepreneurs in the travel industry.So whether you’re looking for a luxurious spa weekend, a cozy coastal retreat, or a vibrant city escape, there’s a Black-owned stay that’s perfect for your next romantic getaway.Where are you planning your next couple’s escape? Let me know in the comments!